Thursday, May 9, 2013

Emotions...

My best friend Abby and I have a special connection, no doubt.  We met as randomly placed roommates freshman year in the CofC dorms.  If there were any moments in life to which I could rewind time, I would choose (1st would be my first few dates with K) Abby and I's midnight conversations in our side by side twin beds.  We would stay up all night making each other laugh.  We have always been the kinds of friends that love to analyze life together.  Our conversations remind me of comedian commentary, calling attention to the weird things that people think or do but don't really talk about.
One of my favorite conversations (of my life, ever!) was after a late night of studying.  We were thinking about how we were feeling crazy.  This was back in the days of AIM and I think we had each set our "Away Message" as every emoticon that existed...like we were feeling every which way and no which way at once. You follow?  We were lamenting on how sometimes you can't really explain how you feel and that there isn't an exact emotion to describe it.  We then jumped to the idea that everyone has their own perceptions on emotion.  When you're embarrassed do you feel the same as when I'm embarrassed?
We went on to start listing every emotion we could feel, the more obscure the funnier, and as we were doing this we both started taking on this strange southern drawl in a deep voice.
It never fails to put a smile on face, recalling the hours we could pass doing this.
Yesterday Abby sent me an email with a link to this article called 
I've pasted a couple of the graphs from the article below, obviously they are very small and hard to read but I loved the information! 
This is no original thought, different languages without true translations, but it's fascinating none the less and I thought I'd share.


Tocka (top left), yep I've totally felt that before.


Happy Thursday everyone!

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

Humpity Hump!

Well I'm finally getting around to posting something this week.  This past weekend we kicked off with dinner over at Al di La in Avondale.  Yum!  I ordered pasta with homemade sausage and fava beans. Oh man, it was good.  And so, I had one glass of wine too many and it took me out.  I struggled through the rest of the weekend, a childhood friend's wedding, a housewarming party, Cinco de Mayo lunch.  But y'all I was a hungover mess.  I just checked my phone and this is the "masterpiece" of a photo I snapped at dinner. Oh, wine!
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 I also found this special shot from September of 2005.  I am so happy to have remained close to all of these sweet girls. *Note: My eyebrows!!!!!  (or lack of)  I actually remember reading in Seventeen how plucking your eyebrows could really change your entire appearance and thinking "Hmm, interesting" and then I went. to. town.
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and per usual I am so behind on Miss Amanda Bynes losing her (excuse me) shit.
She is scaring me.  
 
What the heck is happening????????????????????????????????
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And last but certainly not least, Tomorrow the James Island Kickin' Chicken is donating 10% of all proceeds to Our Lady of Mercy Outreach (this includes my charity, The Neighborhood House).  So get some Kick Chick y'all, you have an excuse!


Coming Soon:
Celebration Steak dinner Friday night with Mattie & Joe!
K's sister graduates from CofC!
Mothers Day Brunch at our place!
& maybe I'll post pics of it all :)

Hope you are having a happy week so far, Hello sunshine!

Wednesday, May 1, 2013

on feeding a crowd & more

First things first: Our new flooring is in.  I'm still too exhausted to rehash the details of the process.  But we are very grateful to our family and friends who lent a helping hand on Saturday, and Sunday, and a little bit of Monday too.  I need a nap.
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On to today's topic:
I absolutely love having people in my home for a good meal... I love the planning that goes into it and then the execution.   But each time I scratch my head for a minute because the biggest decision is, of course, what to make for a big group dinner??  I have a few favorites that are sure crowd pleasers...for different types of occasions.  And I always remember to account for picky/healthy eaters, but not to an extreme.  My meals feature gluten y'all!

Laura's Menu Suggestions to Feed a Crowd:

1. Crockpot sliders and a vegetable.  I love pulled pork in the crockpot- pulled chicken is another excellent option...or meatballs!  It's easy to add hawaiian sweet rolls for DIY sammies and call it a meal with any of these options.  When feeding a group I will account for those who require a green element at every meal and add a vegetable side- enough to feed a crowd.  K's momma makes a mean squash dish...and Pioneer Woman's baked corn has never disappointed me!

2. Casserole + big salad + warm bread basket.   My friend Kristina makes this delicious Poppy Seed Chicken, and I love to make Sausage and Wild rice casserole.  The salad and bread are equally important here.  Speaking for myself, it's a disappointment when the host doesn't go the extra steps to round out a meal.

3. "Build Your Own Pizza" night.
This one is fun, but it requires a casual setting, obviously.  Not only is pizza a casual dinner (though we have gotten pretty fancy with some of our varieties), but it requires flexibility and no sense of a timeline, as you can really only cook one at a time.  This is a good option when you're all kind of grazing...

4. Fiesta night!  I think taco night gets a bad rap.  You know ground beef and tortillas, it can feel like college food (i.e. lazy & unhealthy). But, with a little effort, like home-made enchiladas or fajitas, it can really turn out great. 

5. Seafood!  Seafood just feels like a special occasion to me, I love it all and really, how can you go wrong with shrimp and grits? 

*As a note, I have to leave off any sort of large scale grilling as my condo HOA frowns upon grills on our patios/balconies.  We have been able to sneak by with our Weber Smokey Joe, but it takes too long to cook for anyone other than the two of us on that little guy. 

This post has been brought to you by the fact that I am hosting Bible Study tonight and feeding a group of 10 or so hungry gals. Which of the above do you think I'm choosing?  I'll give you a hint: Sunday is Cinco de Mayo.

(this is the study we are currently reading)
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Another hint, or something of the sort:  Last night we were at Smoky Oak where there is trivia on Tuesdays.  Let me preface with "trivia ain't my thang", but I actually got one of the hard (IMO)questions right (even though we weren't playing) and I didn't use my smart phone, because I don't have one. 
Here is the question, and it's morbid but once you realize the answer it kind of isn't.
Bear with me:
Who committed suicide on this day (april 30) in 1945?
My train of thought was: Oh, what an awful question.  Well, it must be an awful person who died in order for them to even think it's okay to ask this, and then boom. Correct Answer in my brain.
So, who do you think it is? 
Update: Apparently this isn't as hard a question as I thought.  I asked a group of friends and 3 of them instantly knew the answer. Whatever!
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Oh, Spring? Where are you? Other than on my (DIY) manicure...
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And lastly, and applicably, I am in the planning stages of my
 Mothers Day Brunch Menu:
I need some recipe suggestions: grits and quiche recipes not involving sausage. 

Well there you have it, a little bit of this and that for your Wednesday entertainment.
Goodbye for now.